Chronic illness teaches powerful lessons. It nudges us to look far beyond our comfort zones in consideration of new ideas, medicines and healing approaches.
In my own process recovering from Lyme disease, I’ve come to understand that true healing happens on much more than just the physical level. To make true and real progress with ongoing illness, it’s critical to address all the dimensions of health. Lately, I have focused on five dimensions of health: physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual and social.
From these areas of focus, I created a daily activity log as a gentle reminder to touch all dimensions of healing, every day. I’m not generally a big list maker; in this case, it has really helped me to structure my healing process. Creating a simple list or log in itself affirms my intentions. I’ve posted it on the fridge, and I check it a few times every day.
Physical
In the physical dimension, I focus on activities that build my immune system, detoxify my body, provide nutrition and oxygen to my tissues and treat pain and other physical symptoms. Here, I remind myself to eat well, walk, swim and do lots of other simple activities that feed, nurture, strengthen and cleanse my physical being. The physical dimension tends to be the area we all think we know well. After all, we’re inundated with messages to eat well and exercise. Spend some time thinking about the many tiny activities that you want to remember to do every day, looking beyond the obvious and write them down. On my list are things like drinking water with lemon throughout the day, and remembering to enjoy various healing herbal teas. Some things are so simple that they’re easy to forget.
Emotional
Here, I listen to my heart. I surround myself with positive energy and try to choose consciously the thoughts I dwell on. I work on giving voice to my emotions in a way that at once respects them and releases them. Pushing them away, or denying them, will only create stress and the physiological damage that comes with it. Writing is a powerful tool for healing in the emotional dimension, along with laughing and taking part in any activity that creates joy. (Like spending time with these beautiful dogs, above and below.)
Intellectual
Like the muscles throughout our bodies, our brains need exercise, too. When we’re sick, it’s all too easy to ignore our need for intellectual stimulation. I’ve learned that using my brain and expanding my world by learning new things energizes me. Reading fiction takes me to places and times that tickle my imagination, getting me out of myself. Reading nonfiction expands my world of ideas, leading me down the winding paths of inquiry and curiosity. Gentle goals work well, acknowledging that any learning is good and how much is not the point. Television doesn’t count; in fact, its effects are almost always more unhealthy than healthy.
Spiritual
It is in the spiritual dimension of healing that I’ve needed to stretch the most from my comfort zone. To start, I was challenged to understand my own definition of “spiritual,” and what has spiritual meaning to me. My new definition is broad. In the spring and summer, any mindful activity in the garden might support healing in the spiritual dimension. In the winter, tending to indoor plants might do the same. Daily meditations, time outdoors and creative activities (mo matter how small) are all valuable. Again, getting out of myself and doing something for somebody else feels good, at a time when so much of life seems to be about my needs.
Social
The importance of a strong community and social supports is well documented. Older people with vibrant support networks live longer and are healthier, too. Connecting with other people, whether close friends or simply acquaintances, shifts the focus from illness to others. Being part of a larger whole is a stronger position from which to face challenges. Whatever the community—work, volunteering, friends, church—it’s important to feel the support of people around you, and to be a support to others. As an introvert, I easily lean toward spending time alone, and have to consciously tend to my social needs in ways that are meaningful to me.
My long-time readers know that I’ve been slowly healing from Lyme disease, a diagnosis that came several months after starting Nourishing Words. At that time, as open-minded as I may have believed I was, I adhered to a relatively traditional approach to getting well: I took the prescriptions and supplements prescribed by my doctors and tried to carry on with my life, believing that they (the doctors) “would make me better.”
I learned, over a long period of time, that there’s so much more to it than that. My epiphany came when I realized that I alone was responsible for my healing. Sure, my doctors provided guidance in the physical dimension, but it wasn’t enough. They acknowledged freely that a broader approach would help, but I soon realized it was up to me to structure that approach, and that I indeed needed structure.
What’s on your list of healing activities? Are there other dimensions of healing that I’m not thinking about?
About the photos… These two goofy, loving dogs exemplify so much of what I’m talking about (Percy the grand-dog on the left and my own Charlie on the right). They live joyfully, rest when they need to, run and swim like crazy when they feel the urge, find community with each other (and anyone else on the beach) and yet relish their contemplative time alone. I’m not entirely sure where they get their intellectual stimulation; I’ll get back to you on that if I notice any activity in that dimension!


This is so nice and so true. Love the pups – I miss my Charley so much. Animals bring lots of healing too if you let them. I don’t know why we make it this way, but it is the events that knock you down that make us stronger. I need to try to learn so much from the good stuff too – I’m sure it’s not because joy isn’t an important spiritual message – it’s because we don’t often allow ourselves to learn from it.
Hope you’re feeling better – spring makes everything better….
Understanding life lessons as they come along—and allowing that learning to be rich and deep—seems to be the theme of the decade for me. And, yes, my dogs mean the world to me, too. I’m so sorry your Charley is gone.
Thank you! This is such a beautiful, inspiring, and also totally practical post. I loved reading it and will savor it/think about it in the days to come.
One thing that occurred to me, as I was reading your 5 dimensions, is that maybe it’s compassion that links them all together and allows those lessons to be as rich and deep as possible. Compassion softens … like working the soil … so that growth can happen.
Thanks for sharing the pictures, too – Percy looks so Percy-like in that first one – a middle-aged Barrister at sunset, remembering his heroics at the Battle of Trafalgar!
You may be right about compassion. Right up there with accepting (or asking for) help, I have a hard time being compassionate with myself. I’ll try to remember your point about softening so that growth can happen. Maybe that will help. Yes…Percy at his most dignified. He does a lot of sitting in one place, deep in contemplation!
I agree with you about healing on different dimensions but I also believe as Jordan does that they are all connected. As I get older I find that I’m not looking for answers so much as becoming more comfortable with the questions.
I think it’s important to believe that I will know the answers or be able to find the answers when the questions arise. I’ll have to give some thought to my comfort level with just the questions. Thanks!
I also like Jordan’s idea that compassion is the glue. I guess I’m so used to thinking of everything being inter-connected I didn’t notice that someone else could consider each dimension as a completely separate, locked circle.
I’m with Tammy on living the questions too… when I was training horses, we used to teach riders to “ride the jump they’re on” which I still say to myself as a reminder to not to think too far ahead to be present in the moment.
Oh gosh, I don’t see them as separate and locked at all. In fact, many of my listed activities could easily jump from one area to another. Every aspect of our health is connected to the others; that’s exactly why focusing on just the physical can be so ineffective!
It seems that even without the disruption of a major illness, these are wise things to pay attention to as we all get older…
Yes, I agree. It’s all about the basics of healthy living, even if you’re starting from a healthy place.
Eleanor – what a lovely post. I remember the dimensions with the simple acronym PIES. This was a perfect post for me tonight – I’ve been feeling mildly depressed and as I read through your excellent examples it’s quite clear that I’m deficient in most arenas of late. I’m a people-person who has spent too much time home alone doing my TV-like mind-numbing activity (endless hours of computer games). I’ve done okay in the spiritual realm and the last few days have been eating better – but I need more exercise, to read/study more and especfially to be with people. Thanks for a GREAT timely reminder!
Diane – I hope that my post inspires you in new ways, but in no way leads you to feel that you haven’t done enough or are deficient. It’s a process for each of us, and we learn together!
Oh, I agree, Eleanor. You and Tammy are both role models to me – with food/nutrition/cooking AND with blogging. I’m so glad to ‘know’ you!